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Wednesday, September 12, 2007

God's Plan Was Better.



Today marks the one year anniversary of the day that I found out that I was pregnant with Kendell. I was way more emotional than normal and just to "be safe" I had Sean run out and get a pregnancy test. This was not a strange occurance for Sean as he was quite used to me freaking out about thinking I might be pregnant and this certainly wasn't the first time that he "ran" out to get me a pregnancy test. In fact if I had known just how many pregnancy tests I would have bought over the years I probably would have stocked up on the dollar tree tests a LONG time ago ;)


So he brought home the tests and within seconds of me "performing the deed" the second line showed and I looked up at him waiting for the news with the most shocked and nervous face he has ever seen on me.(that was a total run on!)


Right away I burst into tears and Sean started pacing and blowing air out of his mouth with such force that I thought he was going to hyperventalate! He was just as shocked as I was considering I hadn't had a period yet and was still nursing Kierstin. We were even using protection.


He held me as I sobbed for what seemed like an eternity and I begged him to tell me that "everything was going to be ok". He said it was of course because God is in control. You see...Sean had just been put on disability and was still in a cast when we found out. He was uncertain of his future at his company or of his future as a tower climber in general. We were scared and were living in a tin can that we had already grown out of.


But...Sean was right. We weren't in control. Because I was pregnant we found a fantastic place to move into within our price range and owned by Christians. We have never been late on rent in the many months that we have lived here. God has supplied for our family. He also kept our beeter of a van running just as long as we needed it to. A van that I swear was held together by duck tape and bubble gum by the end!


And in April of this year I gave birth to our fifth daughter whom you all know. Kendell Seana. She has by far been my easiest baby. And I wonder if it is because I am just gaining in patience, knowledge and maturity or if her personality will just stay as laid back as it has been. She is smart as a whip and I know will try her hardest to "catch up" with Kierstin. She already is!


God gave her to us, and that is a blessing. We can't imagine life without her and wouldn't take back the struggle this last year has been. It has grown and stretched us even furthur and it is easy to see God in the midst of it. Still in control and still holding his promises true.

8 Comments:

Blogger Brittany said...

Hey I just have one question, What time did you take your preg test?? Do you remember???

Sep 12, 2007, 10:42:00 AM  
Blogger Erin said...

It was after K1 and K2 went on the bus so...probably 1 pm or so.

Sep 12, 2007, 11:26:00 AM  
Blogger Brittany said...

That's weird cause that is the same time that we found out about lossing Joey.

Sep 12, 2007, 11:46:00 AM  
Blogger Rebecca said...

What a great post!! I loved reading about your journey with Kendell & how you clung to Him in the midst of it all. Praises all around!

5-5-5-5

Sep 13, 2007, 10:31:00 AM  
Blogger Unknown said...

i went through the same thing, i went in for my (post partum) check, after having a 6 month "miscarriage", and i found out i was pregnant, then at my post partum check for that baby, i found out i was pregnant again, lol.
needless to say, god must think i have his patience, lol.

Sep 13, 2007, 3:31:00 PM  
Blogger Alisa said...

Erin, this was a nice post to read. We had the same type of thing when we were expecting our third. And can we imagine life without her? Nope. God has blessed us richly, even when we didn't think it was a blessing at the time. Also, my baby was born in April too. 19th. What is Kendell's birthdate?

Sep 14, 2007, 7:59:00 AM  
Blogger Erin said...

Alisa-It is 4/25. Congrats on your new addition as well!

Sep 14, 2007, 9:10:00 AM  
Blogger Christin said...

Can I just say that I LOVE that you have FIVE girls?!! We have three...and everybody seems to think that our family isn't complete with a boy. "Next time", they say.
And yes, while we hope to one day cross over to the testosterone pool of childhood...I so wouldn't mind having 3 more girls.

...and just seeing the picture of your 5 little girlies only drives that home for me. :)

I love how God knows just when and WHO to add to our family. He's good that way, yeah?

Sep 26, 2007, 9:41:00 AM  

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